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Helping Without Being Asked: The Most God-Like Move a Kid Can Make

Helping before someone asks is one of the most God-like things a kid can do. Through Galatians 6:9 and Paul's letter to people who were getting tired of doing good, kids learn three real ways to jump in at home before anyone has to ask.

For Parents

Every parent knows the difference between a kid who waits to be told and a kid who notices. This episode walks your kid through Galatians 6:9 and gives them three real moves to try this week: spot the thing nobody is covering, beat the ask by ten seconds, and pick the chore you would never even think to request. You don't have to assign anything. Just ask them tonight what they could do before anyone asks.

The One Thing for the Ride

Helping before someone asks is one of the most God-like things a kid can do.

Scripture

Galatians 6:9

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Key Takeaways

Try This Week

  1. Look for the spot nobody has covered yet. Walk into a room and ask, 'What needs to be done that nobody is doing?' Then do it. The trash, the dog water bowl, the pile of shoes by the door.
  2. Beat the ask by ten seconds. If you can see your parent about to ask you for something, get up and do it before they finish the sentence.
  3. Pick the one your parents would never ask for. Fold a blanket, wipe down the table, empty the dishwasher when it dings. The bonus moves nobody requires land the deepest.

Talk It Over

What is one thing in your house this week that you can do without anyone asking?

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Questions Kids Ask

How do I get my kids to help around the house without being asked?

The Bible says do not get tired of doing good, because there is a reward at the proper time if you do not give up (Galatians 6:9). Most helping is quiet with no trophy, so teach your child to walk into a room and ask, "What needs to be done that nobody is doing?" then do it, whether it is the recycling, the backpack on the floor, or setting the table. Jumping in before anyone asks is one of the most God-like moves a kid can make.

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