
Loved First, So You Can Love
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For Parents
Some days your kid has nothing kind left, because they are tired or grumpy or nobody has been nice to them first. This episode opens 1 John 4:19 and hands them a water bottle for a picture. You cannot give somebody a drink from an empty one, so you fill it before you share it. It gives them four words to say before their feet hit the floor: God, fill me up. Ask them tomorrow morning if they remembered to say it.
The One Thing for the Ride
“You do not have to earn love before you give it. Jesus already gave you His.”
Scripture
1 John 4:19
CSB
Key Takeaways
- 1 John 4:19 says we love because he first loved us. First. Before a kid did one single thing right.
- The person who wrote it had spent years close to Jesus. His conclusion was simple: you cannot pour love out of an empty cup.
- On the days a kid feels like they have nothing kind left, they are not running on their own tank. God keeps filling the cup back up.
- Four words before your feet hit the floor: God, fill me up.
Talk It Over
What is one way you could let God fill your cup first thing in the morning this week?
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