
Why Did God Make Us Able to Feel Scared?
For Parents
This is the question almost nobody thinks to ask, and it flips the whole month. God gave your kid an alarm, and the question was never whether it went off. Proverbs calls the sensible person the one who sees danger, not the one who feels nothing. Feeling it is not the failure. It hands them one question to ask their fear out loud: are you protecting me, or are you bossing me?
The One Thing for the Ride
“Ask your fear whether it's protecting you or bossing you.”
Scripture
Proverbs 22:3
CSB
Key Takeaways
- Look at the word sees in Proverbs 22:3. The sensible person is the one who noticed. Feeling it is not the failure, feeling nothing would be.
- Fear that keeps you off the roof is doing its job. Fear that will not let you walk down your own hallway for a drink of water is not protecting you from anything.
- Same feeling, two completely different jobs.
- A fear that is protecting you will point at something real. A fear that is bossing you just gets louder.
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