For Parents
Your kid trips in front of everybody and the whole playground laughs, except one person who breaks away from the crowd and helps them up. This episode opens Ecclesiastes 4 and points out that falling is not the sad part in that verse. Falling alone is. Then it asks your kid to be the one who comes back for somebody, hand out, three words. I got you. Ask them tonight who has helped them back up lately.
The One Thing for the Ride
“A good friend is someone who helps you back up, and you can be that for someone.”
Scripture
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
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Key Takeaways
- Ecclesiastes 4 says two are better than one, because if either falls his companion can lift him up. Falling is not the sad part. Falling alone is.
- The person who wrote it had tried doing life all by himself and figured out it does not work.
- A best friend is not the one with the coolest stuff or the funniest jokes. It is the one who notices you fell and comes back for you.
- A hand out and three words on the playground: I got you.
Talk It Over
Who is one friend who has helped you back up, and who is one person you could do that for this week?
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