For Parents
Your kid counts down the days for something, the water park, a trip, a big plan, and then it falls apart at the last second and the whole mood goes with it. This episode sits in that letdown and walks kids through Proverbs 16:9: we plan our way, but the Lord determines our steps. The plan changed, God didn't, and some of the best days are the ones that went sideways. At home, next time a plan collapses, try asking together, "Okay, God, what do we do with this instead?" and see where the day goes.
The One Thing for the Ride
“We make plans, but God is still in charge when they fall apart.”
Scripture
Proverbs 16:9
CSB
Key Takeaways
- We make plans, but God is still in charge when they fall apart.
- A day going sideways does not mean it is ruined or that nobody is in charge.
- When the crushed feeling hits, take a breath and ask, "Okay, God, what do we do with this instead?"
- Whisper a one-sentence prayer: "God, You're still in charge of today."
- Some of the best days are the ones that did not go the way anybody planned.
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Questions Kids Ask
What do I tell my kid when their plans fall apart?
Remind them that we make plans, but God is still in charge when those plans fall apart. Proverbs 16:9 (CSB) says a person's heart plans his way, but the LORD determines his steps, so even when a day goes sideways God has not lost control for one second. Some of the best days are the ones that did not go the way anybody wanted.


