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Doing the Right Thing Even When No One Is Watching

Today, we’re talking about integrity—doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.

For Parents

Integrity is hard to teach in the abstract, so this episode makes it concrete. Pastor Justin uses school-sized examples, a test, a found pencil case, a friend asking to copy homework, to show kids what doing the right thing actually looks like when no one is watching. The takeaway from Proverbs 10:9 is simple and steadying. On the way home, ask your child about a moment today when the right choice was the harder one.

The One Thing for the Ride

Integrity means doing the right thing because it is right, not because someone is watching.

Scripture

Proverbs 10:9

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Key Takeaways

Try This Week

  1. When you face a tough decision today, pray a quick prayer asking God what the right thing to do is and how you can show integrity in that situation.

Talk It Over

How can you practice integrity in your friendships today at school?

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Questions Kids Ask

What does it mean to do the right thing when no one is watching?

Proverbs says the one who lives with integrity lives securely, but whoever has no integrity will be found out (Proverbs 10:9). Integrity is doing the right thing because it is right, like telling your teacher you picked up the missing pencil case even though no one saw you. It means choosing the honest path even when it is harder, not because someone is watching.

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