
Your Actions Tell a Story About Who You Are
Maybe you’re in the car headed to a soccer game or just chilling at the breakfast table in your PJs—wherever you are, I’m Pastor Justin, and I’m so glad you’re here!
For Parents
This episode digs into Proverbs 20:11 and the truth that people are known by their actions, not just their words. Pastor Justin reminds kids that others notice how they act at home, at church, and on their teams, even on weekends. He shares a story from his own childhood about how a reputation built over months can crumble in a moment. On the drive, ask your kids what their actions say about them when no one is watching.
The One Thing for the Ride
“People are known by their actions, so your everyday choices build your name and tell the world who you really are.”
Scripture
Proverbs 20:11
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Key Takeaways
- People are known by their actions, not only by what they say.
- Even young people build a reputation through everyday behavior.
- Jesus as a boy was known for kind, honest, respectful behavior.
- A good reputation takes a long time to build and can crumble with a few bad choices.
Try This Week
- Ask yourself today, what do my actions say about me, and choose to be kind, helpful, and honest even when no one is there to thank you.
Talk It Over
If someone only watched what you do, not what you say, what would they think about who you are?
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Questions Kids Ask
What does the Bible say about how your actions show who you are?
People do not just listen to your words, they watch your life, and the Bible says even a young person is known by his actions, by whether his behavior is pure and upright (Proverbs 20:11). Even at 12 years old, Jesus was known for his kindness, honesty, and respect. Your everyday choices build your name and tell a story about who you really are, even when no one is there to thank you.

